One day when I was gathering with my family, a little boy and my nephew came and asked innocently. Actually, for the size of a child aged 6-7 years, it is not right if he has been given a smart phone in his hand. But regardless of the reason, short story my nephew asked:
“Uncle, why, if there is a whatsapp group, it’s always called mimin, are there many people whose name is mimin..?” he asked innocently.
I was between smiling and shocked to hear that answer. Smiling because the real question according to the size of an adult is not important to be asked, but it is important to him. And it stings because it turns out that we need to pay attention to the little things before we are prepared for the big things.
After sipping a glass of drinking water I tried to answer.
“Brother, Mimin is a name or a nickname for the admin who owns the group, or who invites people to the group, that’s right..” I answered with a choice of words that of course must be easily digested by children. but i was attacked with the next question,
“If it’s a call, why do you have to mimin uncle? Can’t it be Sormin, Parmin or Amin..?” he asked again.
I while smiling also thought for a moment. This boy is right. Why should mimin? right there is no requirement even though there is also no prohibition? I then answered.
“Bang, it’s also okay with the call that my brother said earlier, Mimin is just an option, bro, maybe Sormin can also, bro…” I answered explaining. My nephew immediately ran before finishing the chat because my other nephew asked me to leave.
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The boy was right. there is no obligation or obligation to call the admin of a group with mimin or even just min. But there is also no prohibition to do so. Even the calls are sometimes out of the ordinary like “Mince” even though there are no restrictions or at least the admin doesn’t complain. As long as the admin is okay, of course people think it’s normal and normal.
The important point is that we are allowed to call someone by any name as long as the person being called is satisfied with our call. But remember, when the call (potentially) hurts other people’s hearts, then religion and social norms teach us to stop doing it and the best way is to ask the admin, what would you like to be called the Admin of this group? Mimin, Min, Mince, Sormin, Parmin or Amen..? After the admin answers, then call him by that title and everyone will be happy.
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